Time to register
March 16, 2009
Wow, it’s March and we haven’t posted in a while. We’re still doing stuff, I promise! We actually went to register at Bed, Bath, & Beyond last Monday and then Target on Friday. We’re learning a lot about each other as a result…
We’re certainly in an unusually difficult situation.
- We both have lots of good stuff on our own
- We’re not familiar enough with what the other person has
- We’re not sure how “light” we need to be to stay “mobile” if we decide to move
- We have different tastes in styles, and we haven’t lived together enough to have a style that reflects both well
- We both have different tastes…
Kallie mistakes my opinion for disapproval of hers, and I mistake Kallie’s opinion as stepping all over mine. We have to constantly remind ourselves and each other that this is just stuff, not a reflection of how happy we’re not going to be in a world of constant disagreements. I need to be more sensitive to Kallie because she’s just trying to create a home for us. At least we can manage our list online now and rework it a bit. Maybe I need to let go a little and just let Kallie do what she wants to, but I just like doing things together (and getting to put in my 2 cents).
We had a premature save-the-date go out to some guests, but we’re not sure how we’re going to proceed with those now. Should we just send out the same thing to every else? Finish it, then resend it to everyone again? Or, should we just walk away from the save-the-date since everyone who is important knows when it is anyway. We’ll try not to spam you too much.
Still a lot of decisions to make and money to spend though. We’ll try to keep you (and the site) posted!
